What Happens When the Work Husband Quits?

By Liberian Jewels | The Blue Café Magazine

So, your work husband left. The one who knew your coffee order, your snack cravings, and how to silently scream with you through the Monday morning meetings? Yeah, him. Now, you’re back to facing the real husband or boyfriend at home, and honestly, it feels like starting over… but with fewer snacks and more questions.

That’s right—your partner at home might not get the “work spouse” energy you were vibing with all day. He’s used to your Netflix chill, not your corporate grind drama. So when he asks, “Why you so quiet?” or “You good?” take a deep breath. He’s trying, even if he’s a little clueless.

Your work husband had a front-row seat to all the office chaos. Your boo at home? Probably just saw the “I’m fine” texts and the half-eaten snacks on the couch. Keep it light—tell him about the funny stuff, the wins, and maybe the weird printer jam that made you want to quit your job (again). Leave the “did you know they want to cut our lunch break?” rant for your blog.

Can your real husband bring you a snack mid-afternoon? Maybe not. But can he check in with a “How’s my queen doing?” text or plan a little after-work chill? Absolutely. Set those small soft life moments at home—because support doesn’t have to come from the office to be real.

When you accidentally call your husband “work husband” and he raises an eyebrow—laugh. Because if you can’t giggle about the fact that you had a work spouse AND a home spouse, then sis, you’re missing out on some good life moments.

When the work husband quits, it’s a chance to reboot your real-life love. Maybe it’s not as perfect as your office bromance, but it’s real, it’s yours, and with a little patience and humor, it can be just as sweet.

Softly, 

Liberian Jewels
The Blue Café Magazine